You’re Invited

To a partner pleasure workshop on December 3rd

What we’ve been taught about sex and intimacy from society shrinks our capacity for pleasure and takes us out of our body.

There is another way: By listening to your body’s signals instead of the top-down cultural belief of mind-over-body, by learning to communicate what you want in a sexy way, and through unwinding sexual shame, we can have blissful, carnal, and connected sex.

By the End of the Workshop You’ll:

  • Fall into your subtle body

    The subtle body includes the tiny bodily sensations that signal your “yes” “no” and “maybe.” As a couple you will then use these sensations to learn what you want and ask for it in and out of the bedroom.

  • Communicate what you want

    The more time we spend in our yes, and the quicker we say no to enduring unwanted touch, the more we can fall into ecstasy. In addition, the more we can trust our partner to communicate, the less we need to worry about them and the more we can fall into our own body.

  • Touch for your own pleasure

    When you leave your body and perform for the other person, it leads to numbed sex. However when two people are in their own bodies, centered, listening to each other and their own body, they can reach trance like states.

Details

You and Your Partner will use Touch

I believe in the power of touch as healing. We can heal our own bodies via touch. For almost all of us in this patriarchal system, we have been touched without our consent from a very young age. From adults expecting hugs and kisses when they did not ask for our consent, to explicit sexual violations. In spite of this, I believe we can reclaim ownership of our body, and ecstasy in it, through the power of connected touch with your partner - where we celebrate “no’s”, inquire more about “maybe’s”, and celebrate “yes’s” in a new way.

There Will Be No Nudity

There will be no touching of other participants other than your own partner.

This is Not a Play Party.

Your No Will be Celebrated

Everything is by invitation and you can feel free to do what you want, not do something, and take home the rest. You can share, or not share what you felt, etc. Everything will be by consent and a large portion of this workshop will be explicitly about consent.

Logistics

Where?

At a beautiful private space, breathwork school, yoga studio, and dance space nestled in Holy Cross.

When?

Saturday, December 3rd @ 3pm. It will be 3 hours.

Size?

Limited to 5-8 couples. As there are very few spots, I ask that if you commit, you really intend to come, and if you change your mind you let me know at least 1 week ahead so I can fill the spot.

Cost?

Pay what you can. This is my craft, my art form, my livelihood, and my profession. I’m confident in my craft, and also, this is my first time transitioning out of individual and couples work into group workshops - so I’m using these first workshops as a practice ground. As such, I’m not asking for my full fee. I plan on charging $250/couple (with sliding scale) per workshop, but for this first round of workshops I’m only inviting friends and my ask is that you feel free to pay whatever feels good, or trade a teaching or skill of your own; I also love art and plants, help working on my bus project, or just do a good deed for someone else you know or don’t know.

Reserve Your spot

As there are only 5-8 spots, I ask that if you commit, you intend to come on December 3rd, and if you change your mind you let me know at least 1 week ahead so I can fill the spot.

Can’t Come & Want to be Notified About Upcoming Workshops?

FAQs

  • I’d love to host workshops for these situations, and will in the future. If you want to be included, text me! For this first workshop, I’m keeping it to couples to keep the variables limited.

  • It Depends. As long as you feel you’ve laid the groundwork to say yes and no and you can trust each other to do that, then sure! Does your body feel safe and at ease making mistakes with them? Otherwise, I’d ask that you wait until you’ve developed more trust together.

  • Yes! This is the first in a series, but you don’t need to come to the others. The others will include how to tap into your fantasies and communicate them to have great sex, power dynamics, and more embodiment exercises.

  • Right! Tell me about it.