Connection Used to Be Easy. Now It Feels Like Work
You love each other, but something’s shifted.
And you’re both wondering if it can ever feel good again.
I’ve helped hundreds of couples find their way back to healthy relationships and good sex - not through generic advice or surface fixes like scheduling sex or forcing ‘quality time’, but by getting real about sex, uncovering the real roots underneath the repeated fights, and by making it clear what you both actually need.
By the end of our work, I hope:
You’ll not just have more sex, but deeply want to.
You’ll not just fight better, but laugh, flirt, and actually feel close again.
Couples come to me for:
One partner wanting more, the other feeling pressured or shut down
Premature ejaculation, erectile difficulties, or painful sex
Exploring non-monogamy - or cleaning up the chaos from trying
A relationship that works on paper but doesn’t feel good anymore
And also for:
Reigniting erotic energy and emotional closeness
Exploring new dynamics, fantasies, or ways of being together
Learning how to flirt again - with the person you love
Creating sex that’s playful, passionate, and fully mutual
Growing closer because of honest conversations, not despite them
Making a good relationship even deeper, weirder, and sexier
Whether you’re in crisis or just want something more real, this work is about reconnecting- to each other, to desire, and to yourself.
Next Steps
We’ll start with a free 15-minute consultation call - or some emails - so you can get a feel for what it’s like to work with me - and see if I’m the right fit for you.
If it feels like a good match, we’ll meet over Zoom in a confidential, supportive space. You don’t need to come in with the perfect words. I’ll guide you step by step as we slow things down and begin practicing tools that calm your system and help you understand what’s really been driving this pattern.
Most couples feel relief after the first session and a sense of clarity about why it’s been happening.